“I’m trying hard not to feel broken by men in power.” These were the words of a friend – a beautiful, powerful, highly intelligent, accomplished friend. Words that cut close to home. Words that speak to a deep, shared human story: the struggle to feel valued. How many of us are trying hard not to feel broken by men in power….

But, where exactly are these ‘men in power’? Who are they to you? How do they come to wield such force?

The greatest myth in every relationship is that you’re having an experience with someone ‘out there’…. that the person out there is real, and capable of making you feel something …like broken.

He (or she) is not. Not real, not out there, not capable of making you feel anything. No-one is ‘making you feel’ anything. You are doing that all by yourself. You are the cause and effect of your every experience.

The good questions are ‘how’ and ‘why’?

Therein lies the juice! Answer these and you’ll break the cycle. You may have to give up playing small, holding yourself back and downplaying your value ….. but you’ll set yourself free.

If this is what you want please join us for The Red Shoes Experience! Your freedom is our wish for you.